‘thisblackgirl’ blog ain’t entering 2019!!!

News!!! As you can infer from the title. I’ve decided to stop posting! Why you ask? Mainly, the difficulties of keeping up with the weekly posts and it became a second job and I had too many ‘second job’. This too away the joy of it. The stress of Trying to get views, self promoting,…

Movies to inspire you

As we enter 2019, I want you all to enter highly motivated and ready go out and conquer! This are some movies that truly inspire me and I hope would motivate you. To go out and the your best version Hidden figure This movie inspired me so much. I really wished I love engineering and…

Study abroad: Top 10 fave and dislikes so far

First semester is over!! Back home safely in the U.K. I miss home so much. Everyone keeps asking me ‘so how was it?’ ‘Hope you had a good time!’ ‘How come you’re not fatter’ All these questions got me reflecting on what my likes and dislikes are so far. Like: I love the fact that’s…

Turn off in guys!

Bad Eating This my biggest turn-off. You can’t just be chewing anyhow. I hate when guys don’t know how to eat. Ugh! ‘Send me a pic’ Everyday send me a pic! You follow me on social media. You can view my insta pictures like the general public. Are you my man? Fraud I know I…

12 Simple Steps for Revision!

This is the steps I take to revise. This has been working for me since secondary school days. Some choose to just do past papers whilst some choose to go through just their notes. I recommend doing both. Step 1: gather up your notes Step 2: list the topics Step 3: put these topics in…

Studying abroad: A typical Thursday

7:30 wake up – this is usually on a good day 8:30 wake up on normal Thursday day 8:30- 8: 45 contemplate life and if its worth it, then spend some time on my social media 8:45 rush to get ready probs no time for breakfast 9:15 leave for the uni bus 9:30 Criminology class….

Self-reflection and why you should do it?

To my loyal readers, you would already notice that I talk a lot about self-reflection in my ‘self love/care posts’. So finally I’ve decided to dedicate a whole post to the topic! So what is self-reflection? To me, self-reflection is like self-meditation. It’s taking the time to reflect on your actions/ way of life. It…

Pettiness v holiness: can Christian still seek revenge

I know right now it’s cool to be petty. It’s funny and it just what’s poppin. But lets think as Christian for a sec. can we as Christians still be petty?! This was a question that bothers me because I’m a little petty, not about ‘turning the other cheek’ Pettiness is can be seen as…

You are enough

Your unlicensed life coach is back again. This is for those who lack self-confidence and just not just feeling right now. I’m here to tell you that you are enough. I don’t know where we get the idea of doubting ourselves from. We are so quick to give other compliments but when it comes to…