12 Simple Steps for Revision!

This is the steps I take to revise. This has been working for me since secondary school days. Some choose to just do past papers whilst some choose to go through just their notes. I recommend doing both. Step 1: gather up your notes Step 2: list the topics Step 3: put these topics in…

Studying abroad: A typical Thursday

7:30 wake up – this is usually on a good day 8:30 wake up on normal Thursday day 8:30- 8: 45 contemplate life and if its worth it, then spend some time on my social media 8:45 rush to get ready probs no time for breakfast 9:15 leave for the uni bus 9:30 Criminology class….

Self-reflection and why you should do it?

To my loyal readers, you would already notice that I talk a lot about self-reflection in my ‘self love/care posts’. So finally I’ve decided to dedicate a whole post to the topic! So what is self-reflection? To me, self-reflection is like self-meditation. It’s taking the time to reflect on your actions/ way of life. It…

Pettiness v holiness: can Christian still seek revenge

I know right now it’s cool to be petty. It’s funny and it just what’s poppin. But lets think as Christian for a sec. can we as Christians still be petty?! This was a question that bothers me because I’m a little petty, not about ‘turning the other cheek’ Pettiness is can be seen as…

You are enough

Your unlicensed life coach is back again. This is for those who lack self-confidence and just not just feeling right now. I’m here to tell you that you are enough. I don’t know where we get the idea of doubting ourselves from. We are so quick to give other compliments but when it comes to…

Studying abroad: Educating the masses

So for those who read my last study abroad post. I mentioned that I applied for miss NAACP; well I won. It was really amazing taking part and i actually enjoyed it. What I really loved was that I used the platform to talk about african issues. Talked about child bride in Zimbabwe, mass migration…

Rate your ex: 1-5

1 being the worst and 5 being the best Girl 1 Rating 4 Why: he was supportive and understanding. He’s better than average so couldn’t give a 3 but he wasn’t perfect so couldn’t give a 5. Girl 2 Rating 1 Why: He was an asshole that used to make me feel so insecure. He…

There’s no ugly black girl

Okay, I might be bias because I’m black but hear me out. I’m always overhearing mans saying ‘oh she a dead ting’ or ‘she ugly’ or ‘she’s clapped’. So I’m like okay, not everyone can be cute. So I started doing my observation. The result is, I don’t see what these guys are saying, as…

The family member that ghosts

‘Your cousins are coming to visit’ goes to be room and lock myself in until it’s all over ‘Come and talk to your auntie’ ‘mom I don’t want to’ ‘my friend collect this phone’ ‘hello auntie🙄’ ‘ last time I saw you, you were so young!’ ‘Do you remember me’ smiles awkwardly ‘Tunde’s brother is…